Last October I did something pretty stupid! I announced that
I was going to get into shape, and lose another 23 pounds.
(That wasn't the stupid part.) I had just lost 16 pounds
and I felt I should lose some more. So I announced I was not
going to shave my beard until I lost those 23 pounds. (Now
that was pretty stupid!) To make it worse, I announced I would
post my results regularly on the Internet at Melaleuca's
web page. (That was even more stupid.) To top it off I thought
it was going to be easy. I had never tried to lose weight
before and I was in for some big lessons! In the process I
learned a great deal about myself, about my body, about discipline
and about habits!
Today, as I write this article, it is one week before convention
and I still have my beard! And fortunately I still have my
wife, Belinda, who doesn't like my beard. I don't
like it either. (Growing hair anywhere on my head has proven
to be a disappointment.) This morning I weighed 201 1/2 pounds,
and I am confident that I will be able to shave sometime this
week.
I am so glad I made this commitment even if it did take
me much longer than I anticipated. I learned so much! And
I anticipate that I have added three to seven years to my
life.
I learned that I had developed an addiction to chocolate,
sugar and other carbohydrates. I found it was especially difficult
to give up the chocolate and sugar. For the last 20 years
I had eaten at least one chocolate bar every night prior to
going to bed. My favorite is a chocolate/cherry cordial with
peanuts that is available only through Farr's Candy company
in Idaho Falls. Next to that I liked Snickers or Peanut M&M's.
Some how, I just could not seem to get to sleep without my
chocolate/sugar fix. If I was traveling, sometimes I would
have two chocolate bars just to get to sleep. Crazy, huh?
What is even more crazy is I had never realized what an addiction
it had become. Combined with a lack of serious exercise, I
had gradually gained about 45 pounds since high school. I
found that hard to stomach now that I was the president of
"The Wellness Company."
When we embraced the concepts of total wellness, I knew I
would have to do something about my weight. I have always
felt it is important to "walk your talk." I wanted
to lead out in the concept of total wellness and although
I was providing my body with the best nutrition in the world,
I was not following it up with exercise. I was nutritionally
healthy but physically unfit.
I began the Body for Life program. Working out with weights
and aerobic exercise, the first mistake I made was making
a weight loss goal as opposed to a fat loss goal! While toning
with weights I started to gain muscle - and lose fat - but my
weight did not change much in the beginning. I soon learned
that fat loss is more important than weight loss, especially
if you are adding muscle, which is important because larger
muscles burn more fat.
Our family lives in the country surrounded by potato and
wheat fields. One trip around our "block" is exactly
four miles. Last October I made a goal to run all four miles
in forty minutes. When I started working out, I could only
run the distance from one telephone pole to the next. Then
I would walk to the next telephone and then run to the next
one, etc. Later I built up to running two telephone poles
and walking one. The first time it took me 56 minutes to go
the four miles around our block. My feet were sore, my calves
burned and my back ached. I was in bad shape! Winter came
and I was firming up and running faster, but not much weight
had been lost. As snow came, I could no longer run outside.
I made my first four miles in 40 minutes on December 31 on
the treadmill. Almost each time I ran, my time improved.
Finally, I gave up my candy bars! It was tough but I had
to do it. I started avoiding most carbohydrates and concentrated
on proteins and vegetables. I used the Access Bar when I exercised
and snacked on Attain and the new, just-introduced Fiberwise
bar when I got hungry. In truth, I never did go "on a
diet." If I got hungry I always ate something. I just
paid attention to protein and stayed away from carbohydrates.
It worked! My muscles toned up, my physical condition improved
and I began to lose weight.
I learned it takes about three weeks to break an addiction
to chocolate and sugar. I no longer have the daily cravings,
and it is now not hard for me to watch someone else eat a
large chocolate sundae. I can pass up Snickers, Peanut M&Ms
and chocolate/cherry cordials without a second thought.
I had many setbacks. Many days I would find my schedule did
not allow the time for my workouts. I learned that without
workouts, I did not progress. Traveling overseas was especially
challenging. Often our schedules on the road are so rigorous
there is very little time to sleep - let alone work out.
Then there was the cruise! I thought I was really behaving
myself on the cruise, but when I got home I learned I had
gained four pounds. To make matters worse, immediately after
the cruise I had to leave for Europe and then go to Asia.
During these travels almost a month went by without any serious
exercise and very little sleep. In the process I gained six
pounds total. I lost three months of progress in one short,
torturous month. It took another full month of hard work and
exercise to get back to where I was before the cruise. That
meant that after two months I was right back where I started.
Luckily, I was not discouraged - I was just more determined.
I learned that we have to put our exercise routine in front
of everything else - in other words, schedule around our workouts.
I gave instruction to my staff to make sure they arranged
my travel to stay only at hotels with great workout facilities
that opened early in the morning. I did not allow them to
schedule my entire day, leaving me without time to workout.
It worked! As soon as I got rid of my Snickers Bar, and put
my workout session first on my schedule, my success skyrocketed.
It's too bad it took me six months to learn the process.
As spring came I began running outside again. I learned immediately
that four miles on the treadmill is not the same as four miles
up and down hills outside. It took about four minutes longer
outside than inside on a treadmill.
What amazes me is how much my body responds after a good
workout. Keeping a record and posting it where I can see it
every day is an inspiration to me. Each time I ran my four
miles I would take at least a minute off my time. The first
time I broke four miles in 40 minutes outside was July 13.
My time was 39 minutes, 11 seconds! It felt great! As soon
as I mastered four miles in 40 minutes I needed a higher goal.
I decided to run the Deseret News 10K (6 miles) in Salt Lake
City on July 24th. Three of my daughters, Sara, Eliza and
Emily, and I challenged ourselves to do it.
I wanted to complete the 6-mile course in less than 60 minutes.
I did not quite make it. My time was 61 minutes 41 seconds.
I have not run six miles for over 20 years. In fact, the furthest
I had run in the last 20 years was the four miles I had been
practicing at home. I feel it was quite an accomplishment - especially
since one year ago I could only run from one telephone pole
to the next.
So here we are almost one year later. I did not make every
goal I set - at least not by the deadline I had established.
But I did not give up and now I am in the best shape I have
been in for 20 years. I have lost over 32 pounds. I am within
1 1/2 pounds of my goal weight. Melaleuca had another record-setting
year. I am now another living witness of the Access Bar and
Attain. And I will be able to shave any day now! How could
life be much better?!
I will continue to post my results on the Internet and challenge
you to join us in our quest for wellness. Not shaving until
I reached my goal has continued to remind me of my commitment.
I plan to run next year's 10k in Salt Lake much faster than
60 minutes. Why don't you prepare for the 10k run in your
town?
Thank you all for being such an inspiration to me. I have
learned so much about myself this past year. I will continue
to strive to be a good example as we continue to enhance lives
with "The Wellness Company."
Sincerely,
Frank
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